1. Men may use anger as a way of avoiding the painful feelings of sadness, hurt, sorrow, guilt and fear.
2. Men may use indifference and discouragement as a way of avoiding the painful feeling of anger.
3. Men may use feeling offended as a way of avoiding feeling hurt.
4. Men may use anger and righteousness as a way to avoid feeling afraid or uncertain.
5. Men May feel ashamed to avoid anger and grieving.
6. Men may use peace and calm as a way to avoid anger, fear, disappointment, discouragement and shame.
7. Men may use confidence to avoid feeling inadequate.
8. Men may use aggression to avoid feeling afraid.
How women hide their pain....................
1. Women may use concern and worry as a way of avoiding the painful feelings of anger, guilt, fear and disappointment.
2. Women may fall into confusion as a way of avoiding anger, irritation and frustration.
3. Women may use feeling bad as a way of avoiding embarrassment, anger, sadness and regret.
4. Women may use fear and uncertainty as a way of avoiding anger, hurt and sadness.
5. Women may use grieving to avoid feeling angry and afraid.
6. Women may use hope as a way to avoid anger, sadness, grief and sorrow.
7. Women may use happiness andgratitude to avoid feeling sadness and disappointment.
8. Women may use love and forgivness as a way to avoid feeling hurt and angry.
1---> very easy jus swollow the whole box of panadol and u will either die striaght on the spot or die slowly. Bcoz if the doseage u take is not strong enough and they manage to saved u then u will die slowly y i say so? coz ur liver will slowly failed and u will gt into liver failer this the slow and suffering way of dieing..
2---> if wanna die faster go drink Deltol confrim plus grauntee will die..
3---> Or if u find mthod 2 difficult to do and if u have the courage you can be "superman" jump frm 13 floor n above this confrim plus grauntee 101% u sure died..
4---> Another way is to inject sodium chloride into ur body this 1 confrim plus grauntee also will die and die on the spot within minute.
Any way i nv thought of dieing if wanna die also must die beautilfully ma..ha..ha,,
Any way i woke up at 3.30pm.. feel a little bit better but still not feeling that well.. Meet Pei fen and Estella at plaza singapura at 6pm.. I was late abt 20 mins coz when i reached P.S i saw JiaLe, Zhi Ming, Dave, Evonne and Xuan ling sitting outside starbunk.. At 1st i dunno they were there but is their noisy laughter attracted my attention.. Can u imagaine they were so noisy and loud until can make u turn around and see who is it..Any way i walked over and greeted them. Almost the 5 i mention only Zhi ming recongise me coz he just meet him recently and the rest just say i changed liao..changed alot..Jia Le and Dave told me that they dun believe when Zhi ming told them i slim down alot coz in their impression i alway the greedy pig always like to eat and asked them bring me go eat good foods.. Evonne put on weight leh, That why Dave say what happen to the both of us? 1 loose weight another 1 put on weight he say we went for "exchange of fat" huh? Evonne really put on alot her face nw really round..She told me she put on almost 20kg..Woh..She say work stress and work life there very gd always got good foods to eat so she everyday eat and eat that y like that. Evonne asked me hw i loose weight asked me to teach her.. They say i getting prettier.. Thank you ah!! They also scolded me say i MIA alway called me i nv asnwer if not nv reply their msg wanna jio me out also very difficult.. OK guys..I promise now i gt more time so i will spend time with u all k.. They are 1 of the group i always like to be with coz they were fun and alot of stupild jokes enjoy chatting and go out with them, When i was with them my mouth never close.. As they say don't have me already so noisy if i'm inside that will be even lounder ha..ha..ha..
After that went to Muyee where carmen work.. She used to be my Swensen's supervisor but she quitted. Went to the shop chatted with her..Peifen was also there waiting for me and Estella.. Carmen also say i slimed down alot asked me to teach her.. Siao lah..She also slimed down alot ma.. After that we processed to Selegie to wait for Estella she is late.. We went to our usual hang out and waited for her.. Ate our dinner there..play game..Bei Ta Han laugh like hell very funny.. After that Dennis joined us we continues to play and i'm the banker lol.. I think in further they will nv let me the the banker again ha..ha..We also play pictionary so fun..bei ta han.. i really like this place veru much.. By playing all this things really make mi forgot all my problems.. i really laugh the whole night until my tear drop and i vomitted ha..ha.. This Pei fen wanna intro the boss brother to me woh lau so pai sei and this carmen asked Pei fen to tell her the outcome..really mad leh they all... Siao leh.. when i went there actually he not bad looking lah..lolzzz but if let me choose i prefer 1 of the worker there wear spect wan he look "Si Si Wen Wen wan" i prefer that 1 lolzzz... just a commant no other motives.
We also order beer to drink.. they dun let me drink coz they scare i get drank again..ha..ha.. COz they really scare liao..few years back and at my birthday chalet this yr ha..ha.. ok lah gonna go sleep tomorrow still gt work.. night..