How man hide their pain..................
1. Men may use anger as a way of avoiding the painful feelings of sadness, hurt, sorrow, guilt and fear.
2. Men may use indifference and discouragement as a way of avoiding the painful feeling of anger.
3. Men may use feeling offended as a way of avoiding feeling hurt.
4. Men may use anger and righteousness as a way to avoid feeling afraid or uncertain.
5. Men May feel ashamed to avoid anger and grieving.
6. Men may use peace and calm as a way to avoid anger, fear, disappointment, discouragement and shame.
7. Men may use confidence to avoid feeling inadequate.
8. Men may use aggression to avoid feeling afraid.
How women hide their pain....................
1. Women may use concern and worry as a way of avoiding the painful feelings of anger, guilt, fear and disappointment.
2. Women may fall into confusion as a way of avoiding anger, irritation and frustration.
3. Women may use feeling bad as a way of avoiding embarrassment, anger, sadness and regret.
4. Women may use fear and uncertainty as a way of avoiding anger, hurt and sadness.
5. Women may use grieving to avoid feeling angry and afraid.
6. Women may use hope as a way to avoid anger, sadness, grief and sorrow.
7. Women may use happiness andgratitude to avoid feeling sadness and disappointment.
8. Women may use love and forgivness as a way to avoid feeling hurt and angry.