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♥ Tuesday, July 31, 2007♥

Read this on someone blog and decided to share it with all of you...

NO FINGERS POINTING


A man asked his father-in-law, "Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?"

The father-in-law answered in a smile, "Never criticize your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than you."


We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves.

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A person visited the government matchmaker for marriage, SDU, and requested "I am looking for a spouse. Please help me to find a suitable one." The SDU officer said, "Your requirements, please." "Oh, good looking, polite, humourous, sporty, knowledgeable, good in singing and dancing. Willing to accompany me the whole day at home during my leisure hour, if I don't go out. Telling me interesting stories when I need companion for conversation and be silent when I want to rest." The officer listened carefully and replied, "I understand you need television."

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There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband, because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. Many couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake up and discover that marriage is not a bed of roses. The nightmare begins.

Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another, or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person's character."


It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness.
It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations..

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RIGHT SPEECH

There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "A speech will either prosper or ruin a nation." Many relationships break off because of wrong speech. When a couple is too close with each other, we always forget mutual respect and courtesy. We may say anything without considering if it would hurt the other party.


A friend and her millionaire husband visited their construction site. A worker who wore a helmet saw her and shouted, "Hi, Emily! Remember me? We used to date in the secondary school." On the way home, her millionaire husband teased her, "Luckily you married me. Otherwise you will be the wife of a construction worker." She answered, "You should appreciate that you married me. Otherwise, he will be the millionaire and not you."

Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad relationship. It's like a broken egg - cannot be reversed.

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PERSONAL PERCEPTION


Different people have different perception. One man's meat could be another man's poison. A couple bought a donkey from the market. On the way home, a boy commented, "Very stupid. Why does neither of them ride on the donkey?" Upon hearing that, the husband let the wife ride on the donkey. He walked besides them. Later, an old man saw it and commented, "The husband is the head of family. How can the wife ride on the donkey while the husband is on foot?" Hearing this, the wife quickly got down and let the husband ride on the donkey.

Further on the way home, they met an old Lady. She commented, "How can the man ride on the donkey but let the wife walk. He is no gentleman."

The husband thus quickly asked the wife to join him on the donkey. Then, they met a young man. He commented, "Poor donkey, how can you hold up the weight of two persons. They are cruel to you." Hearing that, the husband and wife immediately climbed down from the donkey and carried it on their shoulders.

It seems to be the only choice left. Later, on a narrow bridge, the donkey was frightened and struggled. They lost their balance and fell into the river. You can never have everyone praise you, nor will everyone condemn you. Never in the past, not at present, and never will be in the future.

Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is clear..

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BE PATIENT


This is a true story which happened in the States. A man came out of his home to admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck. The man ran to his son, knocked him away, hammered the little boy's hands into pulp as punishment. When the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital.


Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy's hands. When the boy woke up from the surgery & saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, "Daddy, I'm sorry about your truck." Then he asked, "But when are my fingers going to grow back?" The father went home & committed suicide.


Think about this story the next time someone steps on your feet or u wish to take revenge. Think first before u lose your patience with someone u love. Trucks can be repaired.. Broken bones & hurt feelings often can't. Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge.


People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever.


PrInCeSs ShaN


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Nothing much happen today..Everything went smoothly.. Went People Park with HP coz she wanna buy the hair shampoo i using now.. Is gd and my hair dun drop so much now..

Go to wake up early tml to steam my Shrimp Paste mince meat for Susan, Hor Sin, Bird and HP for additional i will fried 虾仁蛋　for them to try wanna be a gd wife next time when i get marry so got to start practing now hee hee...

Got the photos we took yesterday on Nurses Day celebration.. Enjoyed the picss..


~**~ My sIngErs~**~


~**~ Serene...Me...HorSin~**~








Me agIan



Practicing Hard
Picture blogging is always better.. I'm so hungry.. No dinner.. Ate 1 big Fuji apple just now but I'm hungry now.. Gt to Tahan until tml afternoon.. Thinking of having Dou Sa Bao for breakfast tml.. Woh ha..ha.. greedy me..


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♥ Monday, July 30, 2007♥

Today SNEC celebrate our own Nurses Day.. We did a song performance tittle Eternal Flame.. Out group name is call Vernus.. This group is make up of Me, Hor Sin, Serene and 3 other staffs.. We start practicing last Thursday and Friday, out perofrmance come out to be not bad.. hee..hee.. Thank gal for ur effort.. I can understand is quite a last min thing and is quite rushing for you all, but u all still manage to come for practice.. Thank..


Took a few photos.. But is in Hor Sin camera.. Will upload once she pass to me.. Here are some of the pics i took using handphone.. enjoyed..






Part Of The Food..



Sushan with her Ice Kachang

Sis Poh Leng and her Kuay Kuay



Fierce fierce Missy Serene



Missy Claudia


Vanessa(Ah Ber) & Me


My roses and chocolate

Claudia With Roses..

Didn't receive so many roses for V day but for a nurses day celebration i received 3 roses..


Wanna thank Birdy for giving us the roses just now when we were singing on the stage.. I know you used ur own pocket money for all this.. Very touch.. Love You Muak!!


This is Birdy when she scrub up.. Nothing to do in theater so took a pic of her scrubing up..


Picture blogging is better then words.. Lazy to type but for those who are reading got more photos to see ma..


Last but not least wanna thank Mr Allan our AV man, even those for the 2nd performance there is abit of corp up coz u forget to turn on the mike but u really did a gd job.. Thank alot.. Wanna Zzzz.. night night..


PrInCeSs ShaN


♥ Sunday, July 29, 2007♥

Met Cythia at Bugis sake Sushi this afternoon.. She was down recently and need someone to talk.. Before i met her Ratz msg me and asked hw my head? He asked me to have a gd rest.. I thought he gonna bring me go see Dr, he say he will try.. I told him nvm is ok, if i really not well i will go and see the Doc myself.. Told him if he free can jio me out for coffee..

He was at Sim Lim, last week of the month go pray at 4 Horse Road.. I meet him at 6.30pm.. He came and picked me up, we went to M.S.. Gave Cythia a lift to M.S coz she was going to meet her church friend. She told me Ratz is a gd man.. Hm.. I also know.. Woh Ha..ha.. Thick skin..

He went shopping with me.. Went to D.P, saw a nice restro shirt and i wanna try, the moment Uncle Teo saw the shirt he told me not to try coz he saw alot of aunties wearing at the wet market Kaozz.. I told him now fashion ma, his answer was : Woh, now day auntie all so fashion ah? wear this type of cloth go market.. Duh!!.. In the end i bought a tude.

He say this month break record until dun wanna break, we mert 7 times this month when normally we only meet 1 a month loi..He say record is meant to be broke.. hee..hee.. Went to Cafe Cartel, saw Cythia there..

Have a nice time there with him, we chat and draw..Frm the drawing can see that he can draw so much better then me..


Smarty Drawing






Wisely Drawing

But my bad habits nv change he really can't stand me....





That is taking photos.. hee..hee

Cythia came over and joined us for a short conversation, we laugh and laugh.. Last we went to John Little and i bought a Mayer Flying Pans, to Minnie toon to bought some staff.. Ratz carried my hand bag for me, so sweet of him.. but he look really very "Niang" carrying my handbag on his shoulder.. He improved bit by bit liao.. hee..hee so happy.. When will be our next meet up? Looking forward for it..


PrInCeSs ShaN


♥ Saturday, July 28, 2007♥

Woke up early and attended this Professional imagine and Grooming course organize by my company.. The Facilitator was Miss Teo Ser Lee, she was the Miss Singapore Universal and Miss World, sometime u will see her on TV show.. If still dun remember i have put up a photo of her..



For the morning session she taught us on Business and Social Etiquette like hw to do introduce urself with confidence and authority, hw to maintain eye contact, international way off handshaking etc..

The 1st session in the afternoon was my favourite session coz she taught us on Fashion Sense like hw do you dress, which face shape you has, the type of figure you has, the type of clothing tat suit ur figure, hw to improve outlook and colour analysis etc : wat colour suit you and wat type of colour you shall avoid wearing.

Last is the Dining Etiquette session, we learned abt Etiquette to observe at dining table, hw to hold the knife and fork, Six-course place setting etc : which cutlery to use and wat kind of glasses goes with wat type of wines etc..etc..

She did a colour analysis for me and i belong to the Warm colour autumn group.. I has the colour chart on wat colour that suit me so that next time when i went and buy cloth i can bring it along, it so handy..hee..hee.. She say i belong to the round shape figure but i have the perfect face coz my face is oval shape... She say people with oval shape is the perfect face coz it suit any accessories and hair styles.. I dun have a perfect figure but i gt a perfect face shape shall i be happy or sad?

Oval Face Shape?

Me and chubby Darius

After the session we went to visit Serene place which is at Jurong West.. I like the design of her hse but is abit far frm MRT.. Daphne brought Darius along.. This chubby cute boy look exactly like his daddy Danny, as if photocopy frm the machine.. Nice foods.. nice friends around.. But since the day i knocked my head twice on the saem taxi i keep having headache and fell like vomitting.. Who knows i may just die in my zzzZz..

Mummy and her previous Baby


PrInCeSs ShaN


♥ Friday, July 27, 2007♥

This afternnon i received a suprise MMS frm Ratz.. He send me a picture of his hand with the thumb guide i bought for him.. The tittle of the MMS was : So Touch.. Feel so Warmth.. When i look at the MMS i was so happy..




He improve abit now aday.. Now aday know hw to asked me out for coffee session, know hw to MMS me.. Hee..hee.. I'm so happy.. Ratz, i will wait and wait for you to fall in love with me.

I will nv give up coz i know Rat is trying hard to 暗恋 me, he nv give up hw can i leh.. At least now i can see improvement in him and the 暗恋 percentage has gone up to 7% liao.. I know i can wait till the day.. Pray hard for me ba..




Buddy gt GF liao, i'm happy for him but the soft toy doggy which i has been hugging for 3 yrs everytime he come and picked me has been removed frm his car so are my photo.. Wat to do his GF is much more important ma.. No matter wat i will give him my best blessing and wishes.. I dun wan history to happen again.. Buddy i wish you all the best and may happiness follow you wherever you goes..


PrInCeSs ShaN


♥ Thursday, July 26, 2007♥

Went for rehersal today for coming monday Nurses day celebration.. Me, Silin, Serene and 3 other staffs will be singing the song Eternal Flames.. So scare.. dun find my voice fantastic but i will try my best..

Just now realise i nv post those photos that i have taken during Kor and Da sao wedding.. Hm.. Enjoyed the pic ya..














Last Of all I wanna say.. I MISS RAT!!.. SMARTY MISS WISELY!!...


PrInCeSs ShaN


♥ Wednesday, July 25, 2007♥


Just dun understand why there are double standrd at my work place.. It just so ridiculous loi.. I can't stand it.. HATE IT!!.. I know double standard applies every where but just can't stand it.. I hate those seniors at my work place.. Hate it.. I will show them i can survive without their help and i goona be frim with them.. Not going to give in to them juz coz they are senior or 老人家 loi.. Just because i every time keep quiet and give in mean i easy to bully lah.. FUCK!!.. NOT NEXT TIME!!

Meet Rat yesterday for coffee session.. He came down to meet me coz he was meeting someone at 10.30pm at Queentown to collect something.. Chatted alot of things..Then he brought me down to Queentown to meet the man.. He hold my hand when crossing the road..

The man who we were meeting was late.. We saw a couple inside the car "Handky Panky" leh.. Hee..Hee .. Rat told me there were "2 little monkeys".. hee..hee.. Then the man wanan show Rat some of his t-shirt and so Rat went up to the man hse.. He went up for 1/2 hrs.. I'm so worry scare something bad will happen.. Call him answer reply, msg him also nv reply. So worry.. Before i decided to went up he came down..

I "destroy" the mazda logo on Rat car.. Dunno wat happen the Mazda Logo dropped off frm the seat.. I so pai sei loi.. Keep alpologising but he say nvm.. I told him will help him to stick back again.. So sad.. So Pai Sei.. Haiz.. Ratzz i'm sorry.. really sorry..


PrInCeSs ShaN


♥ Monday, July 23, 2007♥

HAPPY 23th B'Day JASmIN's

Yesterday afternoon my colleagues celebrated my Belated B;day for me.. They bought me River Island.. I Love this walllet so much coz it white and i need a wallet now ha..ha.. They bought me a chocolate tuffle cake also.. Thank gal.. Love it.. Muack!!

Met up with Jean, Jie Han, Li Ping and Jasmin for dinner yesterday at Seoul garden, it has been a long time since i meet up with them. Have a nice dinner with nice foods.. Yum..Yum.. Bought a heart shape Strawberry shortcake for her.. Nice cake.. My favourite.. hee..hee








Rat came and fetch me coz my leg pain as i worn the wrong shoe.. Lucky he came if not it will be very difficult for me to hire a cab home frm Bugis..We went to coffee session after that..

He told me his company goona send him to France for training.. When i heard that i was shocked and sad.. Haizz.. But if it gd for his further i will encourage him to go but in my heart i hope he dun go loi.. Lucky he told me now going oversea is not his priority.. Feel release after hearing this.. He say if he go for 2 weeks in asked me to take leave for 2 weeks to go with him, i immediately agree loi.. Hee..hee..It will be so sweet going oversea with him..

Msg him this morning and asked him dun go.. he say he will not go.. Hopefully lah.. He called me just now and asked me wanna go for coffee? I say ok.. So excited to see him again.. dunno why he suddenly ask me out.. Dunno wat motive he has?.. Who knows wanna tell me some bad news... But he has improved loi, at least now he know hw to call me out instead of me keep asking him out.. I have meet him 6 times this month leh.. Break record ah!!. Most of the time we only meet 1 a month if not most is twice a month.. I'm scare yet happy to see him.. Let Wait and see ba




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Back to work today.. Feel weird leh.. Dunno why maybe rest too long liao ha..ha.. My colleagues celebrated my belated b'day for me.. I gt a River Island wallet, this is wat i need of coz is white in colour and a sport watch PLUS a birthday cake.. Yum Yum.. Thank Gals..

Lucky 1 case cancel today so i can claim time and so i can attend Jasmin b'day celebration. They eating Seoul Garden.. OH MY GOD!!.. FAT..FAT!!.. But no choice leh, B'day gal choose to eat so i gt to accommodate loi..

Yesterday chatted with Elisia on MSN.. She told me the car model Ratz bought for me was exactly the same as wat she had bought for her BF.. She asked me hw much Rat pay? I told her hw would i know coz it was meant to be a B'day present.. She say she cannot tell me the amt, but in the end she told me she bought it at $120..




Told Rat abt it, he told me he bought it at 3 digit loi.. I told him my present more and more expensive hor.. This yr 3 digit so next yr will be 4 digit lah.. Woh Ha..Ha.. As usual he "HUH"!!.

He say Gal always like to compare their BF drive wat car to other etc.. Wat to do this is gal ma, but all along i nv compare loi, only when people asked me wat car Rat driving then i answer loi, if not i nv go and tell other loi.. As wat he say having a car is a privilege not an entitlement loi..

Going to Jasmin B'day soon.. Goona prepare myself.. Will update here again ya.. Tis are some pics taken frm Joanne camera on my B'day celebrating last Tue at C.A..










Bye Bye..


PrInCeSs ShaN


♥ Saturday, July 21, 2007♥

Chatted with Ratz this afternoon after my appointment.. He Ann Lian me abit more liao.. This time is 5%.. Better then nothing lah.. As i always told myself dun expect and there will be no disapointment and i will be happier..


A colleagues of mine send me something interesting.. Its say...



I like this so much and it so true loi.. I'm not a rotten apple, but is a good apple on top of the tree and waiting for the brave man to pick me up.. Ratz when will you reach the tree top to pick me up?


Anyway he is the 1st man that start my b'day with me and end it with me loi.. So touch!!.. especially the b'day burger, it extremly tasty and sweet.. hee.hee


Went for family dinner.. Nice foods at farm mart.. Yum Yum..


大嫂 & Me


Our Finished food..


Cutie Ashleigh didn't took her afternnon nap again.. She almost fall asleep while eating her BBQ chicken drumstick.. She is so cute




Her brother Asher say he will pay the bill for us using his "UOB Credit Lady Card".. So proud that he even let me took a pic of him.. Hee..hee




Last have B'day song.. 二哥 bought us Green Tea Cake frm Breadtalk.. It Suck!!.. Dun like it..




大哥& 大嫂 give me Ang Bao.. YEAH!!.. Took alot of pics but is in 姐姐 camera but i also took a few pics frm Li min phone as well as mine.. Ha..Ha.. Super Zi Lian ah!!



Li min and Me..


Me..Me..Me..

It time to Zzz.. Night Night...




PrInCeSs ShaN


♥ Friday, July 20, 2007♥

WARNING!! Extremly Long Blog..


Today is a special day 20-07-2007.. Once in a life time wor.. Meet mummy in the afternoon for lunch.. She the wans who ask me out, this a gd time to patch back those bad and unhappy things between us..Bought a thumb guide for Ratz coz he injured his thumb.. After that went and buy 4D 2007.. Aiyo Sat and Sun 买不进 ah!!.. So mummy and me bought Wed wan.. Hope this weekend dun strive, strive on wed lah.. Guan Yin Ma Please Bao You,Bao You..

Went to Kallang Mac to meet his MCS memebers & collect his Car sticker, but we waited frm 8p+ to 10.30pm in the end the man can't make it.. He bought me a B'day burger frm Mac.. hee..Hee.. double cheeze burger meal.. He say no B'day cake but bread can hor? I was so happy, i dun mind anything loi.. Even those is a piece of biscuit i will still like it..


The birthday gal!!


My 1 aNd OnlY Precious Wisely!!

Last we went to Geylang for "Din-pper".. the combination of dinner and supper.. We have ..


"Tian Ji" porridge, Beef Hor Fan and Fried Prawn.. Yummy..Yummy



Our Finished BeeF Hor Fan.. Yum..Yum..

Everything was so sweet.. so so sweet.. After dinner we went to see "流鹰"(sex-worker).. Really alot of them & the way they wear was so sexy and seducty.. He hold my hand coz wanna protect me and himself ma.. Protect himself coz he dun wan those "women" to approach him.. But i naughty i dun wan him to hold, in the end i still let him hold coz i scare hee..Hee

He send me hm, and he gave me my b'day present.. He bought me a Mazda 3 car model.. Cannot imagine he give me such thing.. I like it so much.. He say he no $$ to buy me a real wan so bought me a model instead.. He asked him fren to order for him coz S'pore nv sell M3 model.. I so touch and happy tat tear rolling down frm my eye.. I told him coz i tired and partly touch lah but actually i'm really touch n happy..I LOVE YOU RAT!!.. YOU RULES!!


Before...


After.. The doors, bonnet all can be Open up.. LOve it Manzz..


Then i lay down on his lap for awhile, then switched over and he lay down on mine, who know he really fall asleep and i gt to woke him up 40 mins later.. This is so sweet leh.. Hw i wish the time can stop here.. Really stop here.. I'm tired but really enjoy myself very much.. Hw i wish everyday is my B'day.. Hee..hee so greddy of me..




谢谢你老鼠, 我爱死你了!!




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